Friday, July 18, 2008

White Girl Tip of the Week

With it being my birthday week and all, you know you always get those calls from friends who you rarely speak to anymore but not matter where you both are in life they always find time to pick up a phone wish you a happy birthday and catch up from where you left off.
One particular call stands out the most,which will lead us to my W.G. Tip. My ever so wacky friend Jessie G has recently parted ways with her boyfriend of 3 years. Their issues have stemmed way deeper then anything we can ever go into over a blog, ( I think that says enough.) When she asked me my thoughts on the matter this here way my answer, and it goes for any of you out there that are at a fork in the road with your realtionship: "If you can't promise yourself that this man/woman will make an ideal spouse and or parent to your children and you don't ever think they will give you the life you have always dreamed of then thats your answer right there, it's time to walk away. You're not getting any younger and by a certain age in life people are who they are, there's no use in fighting for something you won't ever be able to change. Use that energy to find the person that best suits you and your needs. I've said it once and I will say it again "Love is only half the battle" xoxo JTP

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am about to leave a 5 year relationship and I can't tell you how hard it is, but these words really helped me and were extremely encouraging. Thank you for the tip!

deadstock ric said...

LOVE YA WHITE GIRL TIPS..RELATIONSHIPS COULD BE A BITCH SOMETIMES..ESPECIALLY THE END.

NAMES RIC' BY THE WAY.

lisa p said...

dam i needed that!!!

white boy said...

u are fuckin hott.

Melissa said...

Wow..deja vu..that's exactly what my best guy friend said. If you can't see them in your life forever don't mess with them to begin with.

My last relationship ended because I knew he wasn't the man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with even though we had fun times. I didn't want to waste time for either of us since we aren't getting younger like you said.

Me said...

"Love is only half the battle". Truer words have never been spoken.