We all crave that hot,steamy,sultry sex we see in the movies and I can guarantee that not everyone knows how to master it. With some pointers from Cosmo magazine this here guide should get you the sex you've been dreaming of this summer!
HOT HINT 1: Dress for the WeatherTo light up your guy’s libido, treat him to his very own wet tee shirt fantasy. Put on a tissue-thin white tee or tank top and “accidentally” get wet (say, by getting sprayed by the garden hose) so that it clings alluringly to your body. Wearing a damp top will not only cool you off, it’ll also drive him loco. “Men respond strongly to visual cues,” says Resnick. “Being partially clothed creates a bit of mystery that guys find very erotic. And the sight of you in a see through top that hugs your womanly curves and showcases your breasts will really turn him on.”
HOT HINT 2: Turn Off the AC
BO phobes take note: Perspiration can have an invigorating effect on your sex life. “When you sweat, mate-attracting pheromones are excreted by scent glands in your skin,” says psychiatrist Alan Hirsch, director of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago. “Neither of you will consciously notice the pheromones, but they register in the part of your brain that controls sexual urges and triggers desire.”
Sweating also augments your own natural scent. “When you’re in love or even just in lust with somebody, there’s nothing more enticing than their smell, and the heat really amps it up,” says sexologist Lisa Douglass, coauthor of The Sex You Want.
To tap into sweat’s seductive powers, let your bedroom’s temp get tropical, then send your man into a foreplay frenzy by massaging his body with your own. “While the sight of your flushed naked body will arouse him, men generally need firmer manhandling to become really turned on and have their pleasure pushed to the next level,”
HOT HINT 3: Work the Slow Burn
“In the heat, your breathing and movements naturally slow down,” says Resnick. “You can make the most of this effect by taking your sweet time during foreplay and intercourse.”
To kick-start your slo-mo lovemaking, present your man with a hot challenge: Make a bet that you can hold out on pouncing longer than he can. Then torment him with nerve-tingling kisses all over his neck and torso; stroke him softly where his thigh meets his groin; trail your hair and lips down his back to fire up his sensual anticipation. Then it’s his turn to tempt you. “Keep alternating — slowly escalating the level of contact—until you can’t stand it for another second,” says Resnick. “When you build arousal slowly to a fever pitch, your orgasm will be a powerful release.”
HOT HINT 4: Hit the Floor
If your summer sex session gets too steamy to bear (read: you’re panting like a couple of marathoners), take it to ground level and point a couple of fans toward you. “As the cool breeze plays over your sweat-soaked bodies and gently moves the little hairs on your skin, you’ll feel reinvigorated,” says Locker. “The breeze will create a rush of new sensations that will add to the pleasure you’re feeling.” Bonus: The novelty of switching your locale from in the sack to on the floor will also pump up your excitement level.
HOT HINT 5: Savor That Post-O Flush
When you finally collapse back onto the bed in a bliss coma…stay right where you are. Don’t make a move for the AC. “Allowing your body to remain warm while you’re coming down from the high of climax will prolong arousal and let you really revel in how amazing you feel,” says Resnick. “If you turn on the air or jump into a cool shower right away, the shock will wake your body from this dreamy, postorgasmic state.” So lie back with your guy, close your eyes, and bask in the aftereffects of sultry summertime sex. Just think: Later on, you can have more of the same. Like we said: Ahh, summer…